Thursday, February 17, 2011

Thankful Thursday

This Thursday I am thankful for:

No longer being sick. Last week sucked, my whole body ached and I felt like I had been hit by car, but this week is so very much better.

My new necklace - it is a lovely piece of white yarn adorned with beads and foam hearts and it was meticulously made by loving toddler hands.


Two days of glorious weather - 65 yesterday and 69 today. Sure, it might be a little bit of global warming, but it feels so very fabulous and is beyond appreciated.

Taking advantage of the nicer temps to refill the very neglected bird feeders - the house finches seem awfully thankful too.

Addie's babysitter, Kelsey. Addie absolutely adores having Kelsey watch her and often asks Andy and I to "go somewhere" so that she can have a "Kelsey date". On Valentines Day Kels dropped off bag filled to the brim of treats for Addie - all of which we plan on feeding the kiddo 45 minutes before Kelsey babysits the next time.

Promises of burgers and brats on the grill for dinner tonight...in February!

Frish's iced tea - it is brewed perfectly and served over crushed ice with a lemon. It is the perfect midday pick me up and tasted great on my little girl lunch date yesterday.


Goat cheese and sundried tomato pesto stuffed chicken, parboiled asparagus and salad with balsamic parmesean dressing for a Valentines dinner - along with lovely conversation and a glass of wine with my husband.

The arrival of Gramma Kathy tomorrow morning! She'll be here for a week and we've got big plans. Gramma is going to be the helper at school next week, Addie starts her next round of gymnastics and Andy and I are going on a date or two - fabulous!

Monday, February 14, 2011

My Little Valentine

Valentine's Day is a non-holiday for Andy and I, in fact I think that we've spent more a part than we have together. Sure I have a nice dinner planned for tonight and I might even shower and change out of my work out gear, but in general Valentine's Day ain't no big thang to us.

But a certain three year old thinks it's awesome. She spent the day yesterday decorating heart shaped cards for her classmates and repeatedly writing her name. Today she brought lollipops and heart stickers to her exercise buddies. I have been told I love you, Mama more times than I can count.

What did I expect? This is a day devoted entirely to her favorite shape after all...

Friday, February 11, 2011

Conferences

Growing up I was always a pretty good student. I generally did what I was told and listened to my teachers. I almost always did my homework, but occasionally forgot to hand it in. I was a bit a chatty in class, but rarely disrespectful.
In fact, growing up I remember idolizing my teachers.
I think preschool set the tone of my loving school and my teachers (I could tell you about every single one of my teachers, but I think that might be a bit of a long post). My preschool teacher, Miss Paula, was cool. She was stylish and funny and read good stories. With the exception of my evil Kindergarten teacher, all I adored all my teachers. And even though I knew my conferences would go well, I always fretted about what would be said about me.
What if my teacher secretly didn't like me? What if I was failing and didn't know it? What if what if what if?

Inevitably, my teachers usually had the same things to say about me - "Jessica works hard. Jessica needs a little help with her organization. Jessica is quite the social butterfly. It's hard to believe that Jessica and JohnEthan are siblings".
My mother would come home with the same report: try to be more organized, remember to hand in your homework, ssssshhhhhhh. And then she'd take my brother in the other room and they would have a long talk that I was not invited to.

Addie has been in two day a week preschool since September. She loves it. She adores her teacher. She pouts on snow days, plays school with her dollies and repeatedly tells us that when she grows up she wants to be a teacher. She loves school, she loves learning and loves Miss Sue.
Tuesday was our first parent teacher conference. It was all of fifteen minutes long and it was glowing. Addison is a joy to have in class. Addison loves to learn. Addison is such a sweetie.
We were told that her cognitive development is right on. She recognizes her colors, numbers., shapes and letters. She is drawing most of her shapes. She recognizes her name and is starting to write it. She can count and recite her alphabet. She can hold pencils and scissors correctly.

She follows directions, expresses what she needs, has a good attention span and listens well. She is respectful to herself and her peers, takes turns and participates. And so forth and so on - a glowing report overall.

The places she needs improvement? Respecting school materials and cleaning up after herself - apparently she thinks everything she plays with belongs on the floor when she is done. Which is exactly what she does at home with her things and is a battle we've been fighting for the last few months.

We've seen her grow since starting school - she's become a better problem solver, her imagination has exploded. She is much better at turn taking and sharing. Her vocabulary is out of control. She points out words that rhyme, she can tell us that boy cardinals are red and girl cardinals are brown, she asks endless questions about the world around her.
Our silly 15 minute conference reassured me that Addie is doing a-okay. But what I loved most about it was seeing her work from the beginning of the year until now. Being with her all day, every day, I sometimes can't see how much she's changed or grown, but I think these pictures illustrate her growth perfectly.

In October, Miss Sue asked Addie to draw a face - this is her first attempt.

Miss Sue then told Addie she really needed her to draw a face - so Addie drew this.


Last week Miss Sue asked Addie to draw her family - and she drew this.


Leaps and bounds, she's grown, leaps and bounds.

Thursday, February 3, 2011

Thankful Thursday

This Thursday I am thankful for:

Making dinner three nights in row and having none of the meals be epic failures. If fact, last night's dinner, stuffed herb chicken with Boursin cheese and asparagus was indeed declared excellent by that husband of mine.

Seven loads of clean and folded laundry.

Good work outs and lower numbers on the evil scale.

That I live in Cincinnati and not snow covered Pittsfield or Chicago - There is a tenth of an inch of snow on the ground here and the sun is shining and yesterday I could see grass.

The safety of all my friends who were slammed with the Chicago blizzard. For some there were scary moments, but every one is safe and sound and warm.

Addison's endless imagination. Sometimes I find it to tiresome to play the part of the daughter, the grandmother, the baby, the prince, the not-nice girls, the stepmother, but always enjoy hearing the stories she weaves as we play.

The arrival of Violet Rose . I get very emotional about the arrival of new babies and she was no exception. I am so very thankful that she and her mother are doing well - and that her parents ignored my suggestion to name her Hermione.

Having a brief chance to see my "her" for dinner tonight, and hold her hand and tell her it will all be okay.

Strong coffee with half and half and splenda in my ceramic orange striped travel cup.

This conversation with Addie on Tuesday:
Mommy! Daddy's hair is changing color!
Ha! It is...daddy's getting gray hair.
No, mom. Not gray. His hair is turning white.